Dear Friends
Are you looking for real relationship with singles in various part of teh world.In chatting there are lots of cheating.Guys are making profiles like girls and cheat you and at last u will wate your long hours by chatting such fake beauties.So try to concentrate some recgnozed dating site which display reliable profiles.African singles are very trust to chat.There are whites and blacks.They spread in india and middle east.Try to maek friendship with them and give your experiance in the comments..
All the best..
Monday, January 28, 2008
Monday, January 21, 2008
Online Dating ,One Woman's Story
Online Dating Awareness and Dangers, One Woman's Story
LAS VEGAS CHANNEL 3 -- May 18 --
"The first mistake I made was I said you can come to my house and pick me up." The couple headed back to her house, where Sonja had big plans to give him a parting kiss in anticipation of their next date. Instead, he asked to come inside to use her restroom. She, in turn, went to the master bath to fix her lipstick. When she came out, he was sitting on her bed. Now she hopes other women will hear her story and think twice about their own safety, especially when dating online. "Will you online date again?"
"No, no I will not. I realized that when I tried the online dating thing - that if you're willing to pay 19.99 a month, you'll meet 19.99 guys." There are some companies out there now that, for a fee, will do a background check on a potential date for you. Safety Tips For Dating Online,
1. Start Slow,
2. Guard Your Anonymity,
3. Exercise Caution And Common Sense,
4. Do A Little Digging,
5. Request A Photo,
6. Chat On The Phone,
7. Meet When YOU Are Ready,
8. Watch For Red Flags,
9. Meet In A Safe Place,
10. Take Extra Caution Outside Your Area,
11. Get Yourself Out Of A Jam : Hmm, I wonder which companies provide background checks? Anyone know of any? Bad example, good advice. Silly girl. $19.95 is kinda cheap these days. eHarmony is raising the bar in that respect. I'd rather meet people who were more serious and committed (to the tune of $50 a month). Wouldn't you?
Low self-esteem. At the same time this person may appear cocky and boastful on occasion.
Trouble trusting others, particularly you. In spite of this, they may say that they know you would never be unfaithful.
Jealous and possessive. Initially, the abuser may say others were coming on to you. Eventually, thought, you will be accused of being attracted to other people, flirting, or being unfaithful.
Controlling. Sometimes this can be subtle. You may be changing your behavior without realizing why. For example, you may "decide" not to see your friends too often because you don't want your partner to get mad.
Usually comes from a family where there was violence, although they may deny this.
Passionate! This abusive relationship is intense and passionate. There is usually a Romeo and Juliet quality, which may be noticed by your friends. This intensity does NOT mean you are fated lovers. It means someone is holding to too tightly.
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personality. The abuser can be loving and supportive one minute and cold and hostile, accusing or distant, the next.
Mood swings or explosive temper. You think everything is going fine, and suddenly your partner is furious.
Macho or super masculine. This is sometimes present in male abusers. This boyfriend will have strong opinions about how a man and woman should behave.
Rigid. You may find yourself saying, "Well yes, this happened, but there are reasons why it happened." The abusive partner will not accept reasons or explanations. Everything is black or white.
Isolating. These partners may want to isolate you from your friends or family. They may always want to be alone with you. Often they will start trouble between you and your best friend. They will be threatened by any relationships you have with members of the opposite sex and may attempt to destroy those friendships by criticizing your friends or pointing out ways in which they, your friends, have wronged you.
Emotionally and verbally abusive. Sometimes there is no physical abuse until a commitment is made, i.e., you go steady, have sex, get pregnant, or cut off your friends and family. It could also be as simple as your agreement not to date others. You don't have to have bruises to be in an abusive relationship.
Denial. This partner will attempt to minimize the violence or behavior by saying: "I barely touched you." "I was just messing around." "You can't take a joke."
Blamer. Abusive partners will blame others for their mistakes or problems. Again, it may be subtle. They will blame others for fights if they can saying any of the following: "You make me crazy." "You know what makes me mad and you do it anyway so it's your fault." "If you weren't so beautiful, I wouldn't be so worried about losing you." "Your friends are trying to break us up." "That person was coming on to you."
When you have a fight, they may try to blame outside stressors saying the following: "My parents are making me crazy!" "My teachers are making me crazy!" "I feel like I'm under so much pressure." "You don't understand me. Nobody does." These are pressures and feelings with which we all must cope. They are not an excuse to be violent or abusive.
Alcohol or drug user. This partner may abuse alcohol or drugs. If so, he or she has a built-in excuse. Remember that many people abuse alcohol and drugs and never become violent or abusive. If you are dating a substance abuser who is violent that person has two problems that need to be addressed, the substance abuse and the abuse.
Look for statements like the following: "I was totally wasted." "I don't even remember this. Did I really do that?" "I'll quit drinking." "I'll quit drinking tequila, shots, whiskey, beer, whatever." "I'll never do drugs again." "I'm such a jerk! Why do you stay with me?" They may also say things like: "Hey, you pushed me first."
"What do you expect when you talk back to me?"
"You were just as violent as me."
"You started it, flirting with that other person."
This can get confusing for you. Don't let it. When you are in an abusive or dysfunctional relationship you may begin to act in ways you normally would not. That doesn't make it your fault. You have the right to talk to other people.
You have the right to be angry in an argument and state your side without someone accusing you of "talking back."
LAS VEGAS CHANNEL 3 -- May 18 --
"The first mistake I made was I said you can come to my house and pick me up." The couple headed back to her house, where Sonja had big plans to give him a parting kiss in anticipation of their next date. Instead, he asked to come inside to use her restroom. She, in turn, went to the master bath to fix her lipstick. When she came out, he was sitting on her bed. Now she hopes other women will hear her story and think twice about their own safety, especially when dating online. "Will you online date again?"
"No, no I will not. I realized that when I tried the online dating thing - that if you're willing to pay 19.99 a month, you'll meet 19.99 guys." There are some companies out there now that, for a fee, will do a background check on a potential date for you. Safety Tips For Dating Online,
1. Start Slow,
2. Guard Your Anonymity,
3. Exercise Caution And Common Sense,
4. Do A Little Digging,
5. Request A Photo,
6. Chat On The Phone,
7. Meet When YOU Are Ready,
8. Watch For Red Flags,
9. Meet In A Safe Place,
10. Take Extra Caution Outside Your Area,
11. Get Yourself Out Of A Jam : Hmm, I wonder which companies provide background checks? Anyone know of any? Bad example, good advice. Silly girl. $19.95 is kinda cheap these days. eHarmony is raising the bar in that respect. I'd rather meet people who were more serious and committed (to the tune of $50 a month). Wouldn't you?
Low self-esteem. At the same time this person may appear cocky and boastful on occasion.
Trouble trusting others, particularly you. In spite of this, they may say that they know you would never be unfaithful.
Jealous and possessive. Initially, the abuser may say others were coming on to you. Eventually, thought, you will be accused of being attracted to other people, flirting, or being unfaithful.
Controlling. Sometimes this can be subtle. You may be changing your behavior without realizing why. For example, you may "decide" not to see your friends too often because you don't want your partner to get mad.
Usually comes from a family where there was violence, although they may deny this.
Passionate! This abusive relationship is intense and passionate. There is usually a Romeo and Juliet quality, which may be noticed by your friends. This intensity does NOT mean you are fated lovers. It means someone is holding to too tightly.
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personality. The abuser can be loving and supportive one minute and cold and hostile, accusing or distant, the next.
Mood swings or explosive temper. You think everything is going fine, and suddenly your partner is furious.
Macho or super masculine. This is sometimes present in male abusers. This boyfriend will have strong opinions about how a man and woman should behave.
Rigid. You may find yourself saying, "Well yes, this happened, but there are reasons why it happened." The abusive partner will not accept reasons or explanations. Everything is black or white.
Isolating. These partners may want to isolate you from your friends or family. They may always want to be alone with you. Often they will start trouble between you and your best friend. They will be threatened by any relationships you have with members of the opposite sex and may attempt to destroy those friendships by criticizing your friends or pointing out ways in which they, your friends, have wronged you.
Emotionally and verbally abusive. Sometimes there is no physical abuse until a commitment is made, i.e., you go steady, have sex, get pregnant, or cut off your friends and family. It could also be as simple as your agreement not to date others. You don't have to have bruises to be in an abusive relationship.
Denial. This partner will attempt to minimize the violence or behavior by saying: "I barely touched you." "I was just messing around." "You can't take a joke."
Blamer. Abusive partners will blame others for their mistakes or problems. Again, it may be subtle. They will blame others for fights if they can saying any of the following: "You make me crazy." "You know what makes me mad and you do it anyway so it's your fault." "If you weren't so beautiful, I wouldn't be so worried about losing you." "Your friends are trying to break us up." "That person was coming on to you."
When you have a fight, they may try to blame outside stressors saying the following: "My parents are making me crazy!" "My teachers are making me crazy!" "I feel like I'm under so much pressure." "You don't understand me. Nobody does." These are pressures and feelings with which we all must cope. They are not an excuse to be violent or abusive.
Alcohol or drug user. This partner may abuse alcohol or drugs. If so, he or she has a built-in excuse. Remember that many people abuse alcohol and drugs and never become violent or abusive. If you are dating a substance abuser who is violent that person has two problems that need to be addressed, the substance abuse and the abuse.
Look for statements like the following: "I was totally wasted." "I don't even remember this. Did I really do that?" "I'll quit drinking." "I'll quit drinking tequila, shots, whiskey, beer, whatever." "I'll never do drugs again." "I'm such a jerk! Why do you stay with me?" They may also say things like: "Hey, you pushed me first."
"What do you expect when you talk back to me?"
"You were just as violent as me."
"You started it, flirting with that other person."
This can get confusing for you. Don't let it. When you are in an abusive or dysfunctional relationship you may begin to act in ways you normally would not. That doesn't make it your fault. You have the right to talk to other people.
You have the right to be angry in an argument and state your side without someone accusing you of "talking back."
Pretty Russian Girls
Pretty Russian Girls: A Smart Way To Build Your Online Relationship
by: Tanya Bilk
It's an open secret that thousands of Western men search for pretty Russian girls and Russian women online. Many of them seek a relationship leading to marriage.
In this article, you’ll discover a smart way to build your online relationship leading to marriage with a Russian woman.
Usually you can't preplan marriage. In the beginning, you aren't able to say if the given friendship leads to marriage or not. It usually happens in the course of time.
Men and women date for many reasons, marriage is not the only one. People may marry their dates later if they find each other compatible.
The conventional procedure includes several steps:
~make friends with the girl;
~live together for a couple of years;
~marry.
By the way, the longer two people live together before marriage, the less chance for the partners of ever getting married, a study reveals.
Meanwhile, our cybertime is bringing new relationship tendencies into life.
It's more and more acceptable to think about marriage first and then look for a suitable person. I'll explain what I mean.
Being hungry, you want to eat in a restaurant. To settle your account problems, you refer to your bank. Logically, if you make a decision to marry, you start targeting people who want exactly the same.
Here come dating services and online singles sites. Or, as an example, online services introducing pretty Russian girls. You target Russian women who want to marry and it’s up to you and her to develop a relationship or not.
The old term “mail order brides” is inaccurate nowadays. It’s not that you approach a woman from an online catalogue of single Russian women for the first time and make a proposal to marry her. No way!
This is what “Russian mail order bride” seekers do. They choose an unknown pretty girl who appeals to them from a Russian single women catalogue, correspond with her and learn a lot before it may ( or may not) result in marriage. Nowadays, there are several ways to check if you are on the right track.
Let’s assume you begin dating a pretty Russian girl online. How can you know the woman is compatible if you have never met her? Just judging by photo only? It’s like walking up to a person at a party and asking them to marry you. You see, it’s far more complicated. But you aren’t in a hurry, are you? Please, be patient.
The wise decision is: carry out much learning, any possible contact with the Russian woman and compromise. Write hundreds of emails or letters… Make tens of phone calls… Provide at least one visit to her…
You may feel after some time of correspondence that the woman is the one. You may begin discussing marriage and family life together as well. It's not an exaggeration.
There are couples who decide to get married during their correspondence. The personal meeting only checks if the people have made the correct choice.
Building an Internet relationship through phone calls and writing letters or emails for some time is much more exciting way to fall in love than meeting a future partner at a party.
You feel magic of love and your feeling is much more pure than one based on physical contact. The moment you meet, touch and kiss is inexpressibly wonderful, precious, one to be remembered for life. The moment capable of exciting your senses unlike anything you've felt before….
by: Tanya Bilk
It's an open secret that thousands of Western men search for pretty Russian girls and Russian women online. Many of them seek a relationship leading to marriage.
In this article, you’ll discover a smart way to build your online relationship leading to marriage with a Russian woman.
Usually you can't preplan marriage. In the beginning, you aren't able to say if the given friendship leads to marriage or not. It usually happens in the course of time.
Men and women date for many reasons, marriage is not the only one. People may marry their dates later if they find each other compatible.
The conventional procedure includes several steps:
~make friends with the girl;
~live together for a couple of years;
~marry.
By the way, the longer two people live together before marriage, the less chance for the partners of ever getting married, a study reveals.
Meanwhile, our cybertime is bringing new relationship tendencies into life.
It's more and more acceptable to think about marriage first and then look for a suitable person. I'll explain what I mean.
Being hungry, you want to eat in a restaurant. To settle your account problems, you refer to your bank. Logically, if you make a decision to marry, you start targeting people who want exactly the same.
Here come dating services and online singles sites. Or, as an example, online services introducing pretty Russian girls. You target Russian women who want to marry and it’s up to you and her to develop a relationship or not.
The old term “mail order brides” is inaccurate nowadays. It’s not that you approach a woman from an online catalogue of single Russian women for the first time and make a proposal to marry her. No way!
This is what “Russian mail order bride” seekers do. They choose an unknown pretty girl who appeals to them from a Russian single women catalogue, correspond with her and learn a lot before it may ( or may not) result in marriage. Nowadays, there are several ways to check if you are on the right track.
Let’s assume you begin dating a pretty Russian girl online. How can you know the woman is compatible if you have never met her? Just judging by photo only? It’s like walking up to a person at a party and asking them to marry you. You see, it’s far more complicated. But you aren’t in a hurry, are you? Please, be patient.
The wise decision is: carry out much learning, any possible contact with the Russian woman and compromise. Write hundreds of emails or letters… Make tens of phone calls… Provide at least one visit to her…
You may feel after some time of correspondence that the woman is the one. You may begin discussing marriage and family life together as well. It's not an exaggeration.
There are couples who decide to get married during their correspondence. The personal meeting only checks if the people have made the correct choice.
Building an Internet relationship through phone calls and writing letters or emails for some time is much more exciting way to fall in love than meeting a future partner at a party.
You feel magic of love and your feeling is much more pure than one based on physical contact. The moment you meet, touch and kiss is inexpressibly wonderful, precious, one to be remembered for life. The moment capable of exciting your senses unlike anything you've felt before….
How To Avoid People Who Lie On Online Dating Sites
by: Richard Gazzo
The internet is a big place and popular with all ages and types of people. While most people mean you no harm, there is the odd creep who will lie to you to get what they want.
For instance there is the older man or woman who lies about their age. I don’t mean they lie about being a few years younger, but men who are in their 50s but their dating profile states they are 22 years old. An easy way to find out if these people are lying is to ask for a very recent photo of the person holding up the date, to prove it’s actually there photo and not a stolen image taken from some where online.
Then there is the second type of fraud, the creepy guy who contacts you through dating services and then he will start asking for nude photos or explicit photographs of you. These type of guys are usually looking to collect sexual images of random women through dating sites.
Another type of weirdo is the person who joins a dating service just to waste time when they are bored at work for their own entertainment at your expense. Not only do office workers engage in this, but then you also get underage teenagers who get a kick out of lying to men or women and they try to see how far they can take it. They use stolen pictures of models with fake profiles, then they contact you and lead you on for fun.
Some other people who have the internet access and lots of time on their hands are prison inmates. Surprisingly they have internet access in jail and inmates amuse themselves by trying to chat with you. You can nip all of the game players in the bud by asking for their phone number. 99% will get discouraged and leave you alone.
When you get someone’s phone number you can do a reverse lookup, using a reverse phone directory and you can find out the name and address of the person associated with that number. This is an easy way to detect if they are lying about where they live or their name.
If you get the persons name you can do a Google search to see if their name is listed, sometimes names do come up. You can learn a lot about a person by doing a Google search on them.
Another quick way to get rid of all these problems is not to signup to free dating sites. Since free dating web sites don’t require a credit card, game players can easily get away with lying about age, gender or anything they feel like deceiving you about. You will get rid of underage teenagers, prison inmates and many other liars fast this way.
Hopefully I haven’t scared you off from using online dating sites, the amount of people who start relationships by meeting through the web is staggering. It’s a great way to meet people but just be careful. Don’t let a few bad apples ruin the fun, happy dating!
The internet is a big place and popular with all ages and types of people. While most people mean you no harm, there is the odd creep who will lie to you to get what they want.
For instance there is the older man or woman who lies about their age. I don’t mean they lie about being a few years younger, but men who are in their 50s but their dating profile states they are 22 years old. An easy way to find out if these people are lying is to ask for a very recent photo of the person holding up the date, to prove it’s actually there photo and not a stolen image taken from some where online.
Then there is the second type of fraud, the creepy guy who contacts you through dating services and then he will start asking for nude photos or explicit photographs of you. These type of guys are usually looking to collect sexual images of random women through dating sites.
Another type of weirdo is the person who joins a dating service just to waste time when they are bored at work for their own entertainment at your expense. Not only do office workers engage in this, but then you also get underage teenagers who get a kick out of lying to men or women and they try to see how far they can take it. They use stolen pictures of models with fake profiles, then they contact you and lead you on for fun.
Some other people who have the internet access and lots of time on their hands are prison inmates. Surprisingly they have internet access in jail and inmates amuse themselves by trying to chat with you. You can nip all of the game players in the bud by asking for their phone number. 99% will get discouraged and leave you alone.
When you get someone’s phone number you can do a reverse lookup, using a reverse phone directory and you can find out the name and address of the person associated with that number. This is an easy way to detect if they are lying about where they live or their name.
If you get the persons name you can do a Google search to see if their name is listed, sometimes names do come up. You can learn a lot about a person by doing a Google search on them.
Another quick way to get rid of all these problems is not to signup to free dating sites. Since free dating web sites don’t require a credit card, game players can easily get away with lying about age, gender or anything they feel like deceiving you about. You will get rid of underage teenagers, prison inmates and many other liars fast this way.
Hopefully I haven’t scared you off from using online dating sites, the amount of people who start relationships by meeting through the web is staggering. It’s a great way to meet people but just be careful. Don’t let a few bad apples ruin the fun, happy dating!
Monday, January 7, 2008
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